There are indications that our partner is zapping from one relationship to another. The third person can be anyone from the surrounding including office/work colleague, neighbor or even any past lover. One can find some clues, that his guy is stuck in someone else’s backyard.
These are not accusatory evidence but caution is necessary when an analysis of this type is made to avoid valuation errors. Better to live it as a game of clues that can allow you to talk if you discover something strange. The following are those strange and fishy gestures, you can easily notice in them when your boyfriend has fallen into an external affair.
1. The verbal and non-verbal language:
Ask this question “Are you having an affair with your colleague?” if you are willing to listen to the truth although it is very likely that the first thing you hear is a “no”. One can notice and point when her boyfriend is lying, the gestures slow down. Non-verbal language constitutes 93% of communication and is difficult to manage.
2. Family history:
The hereditary factor can be key to discovering an infidel. Of course, a loose family atmosphere does not favor infidelity but does not sanction it either.
3. Unexplained behaviors:
The new activities go buy ice cream and take three hours, suddenly the fidelity seems silly to a jealous unrepentant, travel souvenirs and even an excess of gifts to you can be a sign of an ongoing deception. You can draw your conclusions on betrayal.
4. Mood changes:
Is he very unstable, what happens to him? The unfaithful person is a volcano. One day it can be full of positivism and joy because of the euphoria produced by clandestine meetings and another one that is not very communicative, irritable and moody due to tension.
If you try to make short-term plans you will find a “we’ll see”, “later”. Instead, there is an increase in meetings, trips, parties, etc. He needs a lot of space that he previously shared with the couple and the family. Affection is reduced; the same energy must now be shared between two people.
6. Change of friends and ‘look’:
People with an adventure tend to take care of their physical appearance suddenly, change their image and increase their self-esteem when they feel wanted. In addition, new friends appear with whom to be without partners.
An unfaithful person is obsessed with their phone, answering calls at untimely times or sneaking. Almost all infidels today are caught by WhatsApp, Phone Chat or social networks. Not playing to see the clues is another possibility but it weakens the relationship.
These will result to doubt your partner and spy on him as for his great deeds lead disturbing your state of mind emotionally and make you unstable. And for a change, there is no regret seen on his face for creating a mess. As he finds happiness someone else which turns to be the third person between the two?